For swinging couples, finding the right, anything-goes spot with like-minded folks can be tough. But we’re here to help. From NSFW resorts to risqué cruises, BDSM street parties to swinging nudist towns, here are eight bucket-list getaways for swingers.

1. Hedomism II, Jamaica

Beach at Hedonism II, Jamaica

You don’t have to be a swinger to visit Hedonism II in Negril. It’s clothing-optional, if that’s all you’re looking for, but couples interested in mingling are free to explore. One of the most famous nude resorts in the world, Hedonism II attracts a mix of older couples as well as new-to-swinging guests getting their first taste of an erotic vacation. Entertainment comes in the form of nightly toga parties, sexy games, and free-flowing alcohol. And even though sex isn’t necessarily on everyone’s mind here, the Romping Shop Playroom encourages couples to mingle — wink, wink.

2. Bliss Swingers Cruise, Caribbean

Similar to a regular Caribbean cruise, but with a full program of sexy games, nightly parties, and other adults-only entertainment, the Bliss Cruise is popular among swinging couples from around the world. While the nights (and possibly much of the day) are for partying, the ship stops at various ports throughout the Caribbean for island day trips.

3. Desire Riviera Maya Resort, Mexico

Pool at Desire Riviera Maya Resort, Mexico

Surrounded by white-sand beaches and the stunning location of Puerto Morelos, Desire Riviera Maya Resort is ideal for swingers. The luxury all-inclusive comes with top-notch spa facilities, an ocean-view pool, and contemporary rooms, along with four restaurants, four bars, and a nightclub. Public sex is also allowed in some areas, and the vibe is geared toward couples’ interactions and sexy fun rather than just providing a clothing-optional, adults-only space.

4. Castle Milkersdorf, Germany

No doubt the kinkiest castle in Germany, Castle Milkersdorf in Brandenburg (just outside Berlin) is the place to indulge your fantasies. At the legendary Black or White erotic theme parties, guests can choose to wear a white mask, which signals a desire to just watch, or a black mask, a sign that you’re very much up for adventure with others. While guests don’t stay at the castle, the package includes accommodations at the nearby Lindner Congress Hotel and a shuttle bus to and from the event.

5. Cap d’Agde, France

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Come summer, there is no other place that attracts the same number of nudists and swingers than Cap d’Agde on the French Mediterranean coast. Guests can shop for pastries, buy sunscreen, eat at restaurants, and drink at bars while naked here. The resort is a swingers’ nirvana — a place that combines nudity and recreational sex for consenting adults. While the resort is aging — it was built in the 1970s — new money is being spent on Cap d’Agde. Swingers will likely have never been surrounded by so many likeminded people, which is part of the attraction here — that and the chance to swap partners and engage with new people in the clubs, bars, and on the beach.

6. Rooftop Resort, Hollywood, Florida

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Located between Fort Lauderdale and Miami, in an area famous for its swinger communities, Florida’s Rooftop Resort is an adults-only, nudist property for swingers. While the resort gets mixed reviews, the grand opening of a pool in 2019 is set to breathe new life to the venue. Open to singles as well, the Rooftop Resort may not be for everyone, but it has a certain appeal that makes it a popular choice. Nightly parties are the norm (guests can dress as they please) and theme nights shake things up. To top it off, the rooftop pool and terrace have some great views.

7. Sea Mountain Nude Resort

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Located in the Desert Hot Springs, the Sea Mountain Nude Resort is much more than just a clothing-optional resort. There’s a no-pressure vibe here, and single men aren’t welcome, but the erotic atmosphere makes this California spot a haven for curious swingers. It’s billed as a five-star resort, and while reviews suggest that’s a bit of a stretch, guests appreciate the no-boundaries, highly-charged environment at Sea Mountain, which is located close to Palm Springs and Joshua Tree National Park.

8. Folsom Street Fair, San Francisco

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It’s not strictly a swingers’ party, but San Francisco’s Folsom Street Fair is an experience that curious couples will enjoy together — and there is almost always a chance of kinky shenanigans. A celebration of leather and BDSM culture, the annual event is a hedonistic street party with parades, fetish exhibits and demonstrations, and live performances. The difference between the Folsom Street Fair and most other options on this list is that the kink-themed fair is a gender-inclusive space that welcomes all sexualities, so no matter how you identify, you can enjoy the fairgrounds as a couple. The Folsom Street Fair is held annually at the end of September.

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