If youre taking a vacation with young kids, flying is likely preferable to driving. Hours or days in a car with a fussy baby or a disagreeable toddler? That does not sound like a relaxing start (or end) to a vacation. Flying can be a hassle of coursedelays, cancellations or overbooked flightsbut if you choose the right seat when youre flying with kids, youve got a much better chance of smooth sailing after takeoff.

　　The experts at AirAdvisor say that the best place to sit when flying as a family is in the bulkhead row, where you have a lot more room to move. However, a more nuanced decision is necessary whether youre flying with an infant, toddler or small child. Its also important to note that no one under the age of 15 can sit in an exit row. The flight attendant will make you move, no exceptions, and families may get separated. Here are a few tips to consider when flying with the kids.

　　Best seat for flying with an infant The bulkhead row is the best choice for flying long-distance with an infant. Most big planes offer bassinets that attach to the wall of the bulkhead. This lets you travel hands-free. The downside of the bulkhead row with an infant is that you cant have anything at your feet as there are no seats in front of you. While they can come down later, your diaper bag and all supplies have to go up before takeoff. If you choose to have your infant in your lap, note that only one infant per row is allowed, as there is only one extra oxygen mask per row.

　　Best seat for flying with a toddler or small child A bulkhead row is also a good choice for a toddler who may squirm around. The same caveat applies, howeverif you need your bag of tricks to keep your toddler entertained, note that you cannot access it until after takeoff. Otherwise, a window seat is always a good idea. Youve got instant entertainment as they can keep an eye on the clouds and look out at the landscape below. Just be sure youre taking up the whole row with family or you have an understanding neighbor in case you have to get up with your toddler.

　　Best seat for flying while potty training Sometimes, the timing of your trip is not ideal. If youre flying while your toddler is potty training, youll definitely want to be in an aisle seat in a row near the bathroom. While seats at the back of the plane may be closer to the rear toilets, these are still some of the worst seats on the plane for traveling with kids. Stick to the seats near the front of the plane.

　　Whatever you do, AirAdvisor recommends choosing your seats in advance, regardless of the airline. Board during the family boarding and make sure you have everything you need before takeoff.